andreawyatt:

yell0w-daisies:

yell0w-daisies:

Or they know it’s a mistake and forgive themselves but others can’t forgive them for it.

It’s still their mistake and an apology isn’t always sincere. How sincere is an apology after messing up over the same thing multiple times? That’s not even the point of what I was posting. This turned into something all together.

Well that’s what I was saying by what may be a mistake to you isn’t to someone else. If they make the same mistake over and over then clearly they don’t really consider it a mistake and they just use an apology to be forgiven, not because they are sorry. Does that make sense? And yeah I was just thinking I think I misunderstand your post haha. Sorry! :(

I agree in some cases. But sometimes people really are sorry and then do it again. It’s like when a kid hits another kid because they wanted the toy they were playing with. They see that they hurt the kid and say sorry. Then a few weeks later the kid does it again. Then there’s the kind of people who cheat and say sorry just so they won’t lose the person or so they won’t hear bitching. Then they get better at hiding and cheat again. Regardless of the mistake, we need to not judge people and if they make the same mistakes and you don’t agree with them, drop those people. Haha I agree with what you’re saying so I don’t mind! No need for apologies.

andreawyatt:

yell0w-daisies:

yell0w-daisies:

Or they know it’s a mistake and forgive themselves but others can’t forgive them for it.

It’s still their mistake and an apology isn’t always sincere. How sincere is an apology after messing up over the same thing multiple times? That’s not even the point of what I was posting. This turned into something all together.

Well that’s what I was saying by what may be a mistake to you isn’t to someone else. If they make the same mistake over and over then clearly they don’t really consider it a mistake and they just use an apology to be forgiven, not because they are sorry. Does that make sense? And yeah I was just thinking I think I misunderstand your post haha. Sorry! :(

I agree in some cases. But sometimes people really are sorry and then do it again. It’s like when a kid hits another kid because they wanted the toy they were playing with. They see that they hurt the kid and say sorry. Then a few weeks later the kid does it again. Then there’s the kind of people who cheat and say sorry just so they won’t lose the person or so they won’t hear bitching. Then they get better at hiding and cheat again. Regardless of the mistake, we need to not judge people and if they make the same mistakes and you don’t agree with them, drop those people. Haha I agree with what you’re saying so I don’t mind! No need for apologies.

yell0w-daisies:

Or they know it’s a mistake and forgive themselves but others can’t forgive them for it.

It’s still their mistake and an apology isn’t always sincere. How sincere is an apology after messing up over the same thing multiple times? That’s not even the point of what I was posting. This turned into something all together.

yell0w-daisies:

Or they know it’s a mistake and forgive themselves but others can’t forgive them for it.

It’s still their mistake and an apology isn’t always sincere. How sincere is an apology after messing up over the same thing multiple times? That’s not even the point of what I was posting. This turned into something all together.